The Pitfalls of Comparison - Embracing Personal Growth and Authenticity In the journey of life, it is all too easy to fall into the trap of comparison. Whether it's comparing our achievements, possessions, or appearances to those of others, this habit can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and discontentment. However, embracing the mantra "Never compare yourself with others" can be transformative, leading to greater self-awareness, fulfillment, and personal growth. Life is a journey Understanding the Perils of Comparison Comparison often stems from societal pressures, unrealistic standards, and the human tendency to seek validation from external sources. In today's hyperconnected world, social media exacerbates this phenomenon, presenting curated glimpses into the lives of others, which can distort reality and foster feelings of inadequacy. Research in psychology consistently demonstrates the detrimental effects of comparison on mental well-being. Studie...

FROM A BROKEN HOME IN PAPUA NEW GUINEA TO UNIVERSITY IN POLAND To struggling young people of  Papua New Guinea: do not be a prisoner of your past. If you are someone who is experiencing the same family problem as mine, never take revenge. If you do, you will never find satisfaction. Rather, try to build yourself up, pull yourself together, study hard if you are a student, work hard if you're employed, start up small business if you have to. Most importantly, put God first in everything you do. - Ms. Caroline Winuan. True Story of Ms. Caroline Winuan | Papua New Guinea by Glen Burua   I can’t remember when my dad left us and move on with his other wife. I was not yet in school. All I can remember were the struggles my mother had to face playing both roles of being a father and a mother to me and my siblings.  Neighbors sometimes calls us bastard kids and gives us all kinds of names. My mother had to bear with it. There could be others facing similar situatio...

THE MIND OF A PAPUA NEW GUINEA WOMAN BEHIND 'PACIFICANA':The remarkable story of Amanda Kanasa. Amanda is known for her Port Moresby-based local SME, branded Pacificana, that designs and sells fashion products ranging from hair flowers and coconut earrings to dresses and bags sold throughout the Pacific and now in Cairns, Australia. Originating from Baluan Island in Manus and Gabagaba village in the Central Province of Papua New Guinea, Amanda was raised by her mum in Port Moresby.   THE MIND BEHIND 'PACIFICANA' - PAPUA NEW GUINEA WOMAN IN BUSINESS Published by Solomon Aplas    From a humble beginning in a single parent’s home to owner of a thriving business, we celebrate the remarkable story of Amanda Kanasa on the day of micro, small, and medium-sized enterprises.  Amanda is known for her Port Moresby-based local SME, branded Pacificana, that designs and sells fashion products ranging from hair flowers and coconut earrings to dresses and bags sold throug...

Back in mid 2014 in Gogosi Street Gerehu 6, NCD I was sitting near my uncle's trade store where I used to live. Graduated from University in 2011 but couldn't get a full time job so went back to village but 2014 was the year I decided to come to POM to look for jobs. And mid 2014 was the time when I was approached by a sepik lad named Carlos Nayau.  He was renting in the next house in the same street. Little did I know that he was the Finance Manager of Marie Stopes International (PNG).  He approached me and asked boldly as if I had been to a school. I told him I finished from UPNG 3 years ago. He said he will talk to the then Operations and Finance Director named Raheel Sheik, a Pakistan national.  A month later Carlos brought me to the Pakistani for a interview for a admin Clerk job. Well obviously I answered his questions well but only one question he asked remains a Q&A for a lifetime. He asked' "where will you be in the 10 year years?"  I gave a very shor...