The Pitfalls of Comparison - Embracing Personal Growth and Authenticity In the journey of life, it is all too easy to fall into the trap of comparison. Whether it's comparing our achievements, possessions, or appearances to those of others, this habit can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and discontentment. However, embracing the mantra "Never compare yourself with others" can be transformative, leading to greater self-awareness, fulfillment, and personal growth. Life is a journey Understanding the Perils of Comparison Comparison often stems from societal pressures, unrealistic standards, and the human tendency to seek validation from external sources. In today's hyperconnected world, social media exacerbates this phenomenon, presenting curated glimpses into the lives of others, which can distort reality and foster feelings of inadequacy. Research in psychology consistently demonstrates the detrimental effects of comparison on mental well-being. Studie...

FROM A BROKEN HOME IN PAPUA NEW GUINEA TO UNIVERSITY IN POLAND To struggling young people of  Papua New Guinea: do not be a prisoner of your past. If you are someone who is experiencing the same family problem as mine, never take revenge. If you do, you will never find satisfaction. Rather, try to build yourself up, pull yourself together, study hard if you are a student, work hard if you're employed, start up small business if you have to. Most importantly, put God first in everything you do. - Ms. Caroline Winuan. True Story of Ms. Caroline Winuan | Papua New Guinea by Glen Burua   I can’t remember when my dad left us and move on with his other wife. I was not yet in school. All I can remember were the struggles my mother had to face playing both roles of being a father and a mother to me and my siblings.  Neighbors sometimes calls us bastard kids and gives us all kinds of names. My mother had to bear with it. There could be others facing similar situatio...